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I heal differently

Updated: May 18, 2020

It looks different for everyone.


You can't expect someone to heal in the way that worked for you.


You can't expect it to be convenient for you.


You can't expect it to be a checklist.


You can't expect really anything out of it.


I've talked to several people about their path to compare or get advice.


I heal differently...


Lots of therapy


Journaling for hours


Writing articles like these


Binging a show and then not wanting to watch TV for months


Laying in bed for hours replaying my past


Essential oils and supplements


Laughing with my friends


Holding my niece


Creating space


Eating healthy


Slowing down


Exercising


Sobbing


Dancing

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