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Do you love yourself?

I think if you did, you'd love other people more.


You'd accept them as they are. You'd love their faults and quarks because they didn't matter.


You'd choose someone who loved themself, too. Someone who loved their own faults and quarks.


Are you critical of others because you're so critical of yourself?


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