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Updated: Nov 11, 2020

His heart.

His faith.

His love for his family and friends.

Do his actions match his words?

Is he creative?

Empathetic?

Passionate?

Supportive?

Motivated?

How do I feel when I'm with him?

Like I'm free to be myself?

Confident?

Adored?

Critiqued?

Do I trust him?

But more importantly...do I respect him?

Does he take care of himself? His body, his home?

Does he love others? And care for them?

Does he want to change me?

Does he love himself?

Does he make me laugh?

Is he an effective communicator?

Is he grounded?

Is he open to change and new experiences?

Will he love my family as much as I do?

Or my friends?

Will he be a good partner?

A good father?

Will he be my best friend?

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